The First Sunday in Lent

Somewhere I read that we reach our peak in our early 30s. After that, life goes downhill. And yet, the other day a 90 year old parishioner I’d stop to chat with excused herself saying she had to get to the Y and the pool! I don’t know what “peak “ is, but I do know that age is no barrier to self-improvement. With that in mind, a suggestion for Lent.


Most of us dread Lent. We’ve been conditioned to “give up” something for 6 weeks and we angst about what that something should be. Then we get the “guilts” when we cop a smoke, eat a chocolate, or have a beer.

This Lent, forget about “giving up.” Instead, add something to your life.

Start off by imagining people who know you talking about you. You’re not there. What do you hope they are saying about you?

Then take a brief inventory of who you are – not your job or whether you’re a mom or dad, husband or wife, son or daughter, neighbor or co-worker. Instead, who you are as a person in these relationships: generous, trusting, available, courteous, honest, good-humored. Then think about which of these characteristics could use some attention. “I could be more courageous and stop lying.” “I could call my brothers and sisters more often.” “I could take myself less seriously.” “I could take myself more seriously and trust my values and convictions.” Whatever.

Now think about what you could do in the next 6 weeks to make better the good you are already are? What could you do to better to appreciate the person God loves no matter what? To make better the person already worth the Cross?

And instead of “giving up,” spend these 6 weeks “growing up” into the person God knows and loves by name, the person God has given to the rest of us so that we’ll have a real-life, flesh-and-blood experience of God’s love for us.

Come Easter, we all dress up. During Lent we make sure that we’ll look as good on the inside as we do on the outside.

Finally … the church has 2 sacraments of healing: Penance/Reconciliation (“Confession”) and Sacrament of the Sick (some still incorrectly call it “Extreme Unction”). Both aim to put back together what’s fallen apart in our lives with God and others. Penance, what’s fallen apart in the ups and downs of everyday life; Sacrament of the Sick, what’s fallen apart because of age or illness. We celebrate Penance/Reconciliation each Saturday from 9AM-10AM and on Tuesday, March 16 at 7PM. The Sacrament of the Sick is available anytime – simply call on one of the friars. The Sacrament of the Sick should always be requested when you are looking at some hospital time. It can be celebrated in your home, the hospital, a care facility, during daily Mass or after a Sunday Mass.